THINKWELLNOW

Changing Thinking, Getting Positive, and Moving Forward

Author : Gary Kennedy

Finding Home

The Challenge and Beauty of Belonging in a Moving World COVID-19 taught us a lot, or if it didn’t teach us, it hammered it home. One of those things is our deep craving for connection and belonging. Remember the news reports of people on balconies in high-rise apartments singing together? There was an incredible sense […]

Don’t Get Defensive, Get Defective

How to Turn Feedback into Your Superpower In my last blog post, I wrote about giving feedback and how to make it useful and to the point.  In today’s piece I want to look at the other side of the coin: how to receive feedback or criticism.  This includes performance reviews at work, critiques from […]

The Judgement Trap

Why Curiosity is the Key to Stronger Relationships Have you ever felt misunderstood by someone close to you? Or maybe you’ve been on the other side, judging a friend’s decision without fully understanding their perspective. We all fall into the trap of judgement sometimes, but it can be a real barrier to strong, healthy relationships. […]

The Power of Laughter in Coaching

Seeing the Funny Without Losing Sight of the Real There’s a misconception about coaching and counselling – it’s all seriousness, furrowed brows, and tearful confessions on a worn leather couch. While there’s certainly space for those moments, there’s another side to therapy that often gets overlooked: laughter. Yes, laughter. In my sessions, you’ll hear it […]

The Gift of “I Don’t Know”: Why Uncertainty Can Be Your Greatest Ally

Have you ever felt stuck trying to solve a problem? You turn it over in your mind, considering every angle, but all you draw a blank. The dreaded “I don’t know” hangs heavy in the air. This feeling of uncertainty can be frustrating, like hitting a dead end owhen you are trying to find a […]

Embracing Kindness During Life Transitions: Navigating the Grief Process

Understanding the Grief Process in Life Transitions Life transitions, whether seemingly minor or significantly transformative, inherently involve a grieving process. This grieving process is not solely reserved for moments of profound loss, such as the death of a loved one, but also for the more subtle changes that punctuate our lives. Transitions such as moving […]

The Symphony of Strengths

Celebrating Your Colleagues This Week (and Every Week!) We have just reached the end of Teacher Appreciation Week, a time to acknowledge the amazing educators who dedicate their lives to shaping young minds. But appreciation, like learning, is a lifelong journey. In the daily whirlwind of work, it’s easy to overlook the strengths and contributions […]

Ch-Ch-Ch-Ch Changes

How to Navigate Change Using the 3 C’s Framework Change is an inevitable part of life. Whether it’s starting a new job, moving to a new city, or undergoing significant personal transformations, change can significantly impact our mental and emotional well-being. Interestingly, even positive changes can be challenging, especially for those with low self-esteem. Psychologist […]

Navigating Self-Doubt: Cultivating Well-being Amidst Success

In a world that often equates success with relentless hustle and unyielding ambition, it’s not uncommon to hear high achievers whisper doubts like, “Do I truly deserve this?” or wonder, “Am I worthy of such happiness in my relationship?” These questions are more than mere reflections; they’re indicative of a psychological phenomenon known as imposter […]

Scroll to top